Determine what kind of wedding you want. Evaluate amount of money available to spend. Prepare a spending plan - include hidden expenses. Begin saving money. The wedding reception is the single biggest expense and where you can save the most money. Go with simple flowers that are in season or use candles as centerpieces. Think about creative ways to design your own invitations. Have a simple wedding cake done at a bakery instead of a multiple tiered cake done by a wedding cake professional. Employ a photographer who charges by the hour and request only a certain amount of professional pictures. You can have a relative or a friend take the "fun" shots. Rent a town car for the wedding instead of a limousine. Consider renting instead of buying a wedding dress. Make your own veil. You can find easy instructions on how to make your own veil and save hundreds.

Good communication is essential in planning the "wedding of your dreams." The bride and groom should discuss all aspects of planning, including the budget, with their families. Organization is the key to any successful wedding. Avoid the tendency to overshop. Get everything in writing, even verbal exchanges over the phone. Hang on to all your receipts and contracts. Get referrals from someone you trust. Use vendors who have a proven track record. Take the time to make your decisions, don't buy on a whim. Consider a wedding consultant, they can help reduce stress and expense. Comparison shop. Draw different idea from different sources. Book reception halls a year in advance. Keep a wedding calendar which includes appointments with vendors, payment due dates, and ordering deadlines. Watch out for extras that you really don't need.